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Enough has been said…. Objective: Let's use our potentials! Milan Krajnc

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Enough has been said… Goal: Let’s use our potentials!

By admin,30. September, 202017. December, 2020

I have received countless questions over the past seven years, but I have given the same answer to all of them. Why is there more and more violence… why is there a crisis in Slovenia… why do our politicians steal… why are… why are… why… why are… ?????

Because we do not have GOAL!

It was always the same answer! And so I answered with the same answer for seven years until I got
tired myself and at the same time heard from others that maybe it was time for me to talk about
solutions as well.

And where should you start looking for a goal, maybe in the library, maybe with your uncles in the background, maybe somewhere in the jungle … After an intensive search I saw that I had a solution in front of me. The Institute for the Development of the Future has been researching the potential of Slovenian communities for seven years, and the results have been the same for several years. Oz. I will not write the solution right away, but where we make the mistake.

Slovenian local and state politicians are constantly looking for solutions abroad, foreign investors for large factories, amusement parks… something that would literally force them into an environment they could not otherwise use. And here they make a mistake!

If a foreign body enters the body, the body excretes it again!

In the environment we always suppressed our most beautiful parts, our potentials, because everything that was foreign became more and more interesting and we wanted to have it at home, even if it did not belong in this city. So over the decades we forgot ourselves and lived only for others. Now everything is saturated, and the system has collapsed, and it is necessary to create a balance or, as some would say, it has to be reset or rebuilt. We must be aware that we cannot rebuild because there is nothing new, but it is necessary to build on a solid foundation, on what has been there for thousands of years. These are the potentials of nature, people, history and place. If we add up all these potentials, we get a clear local goal for each local community, and only if we add up the local goals do we get a general national goal. Until now we have not been able to set a goal at the top, so it must now come from below.

What we must do first:

ensure food self-sufficiency,
ensure water self-sufficiency,
ensure energy self-sufficiency
convert all waste into energy, gears and other useful things.

In order to be completely independent, we are only now ready to set ourselves a goal, because if we are not hungry and see that we can take care of everything ourselves, we will get to know each other at the same time, without excessive expectations. Finally, this will be a ground for self-sufficiency, also a kind of cleansing from all the burdens we carry around with us.

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Then we will look at what is left and what we do and what others do not do and need. I am not saying here that we will artificially encourage someone to do things again that they do not need, but about things that strengthen us physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, so that we can broaden our horizons and increase our quality of life.

Some will discover the beauty of the place, others the knowledge in the people, and still others the history… yes, we see it now. But you also see that it is not developing anywhere. But it’s not evolving because we do not appreciate it, because we do not respect it…

If we follow all these paths and insights, we will probably end up with boutique products, food, various products and tourism. We ourselves will begin to respect and appreciate this immensely, and then we will be able to offer these small amounts of money only to those who deserve it.

With these simple steps, we will get out of the crisis and also reach the top of the world.

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Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com

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Crisis Communication

By admin,30. September, 202018. December, 2020

When we find ourselves in a crisis situation, we need to be aware that we are (most likely) to blame for it ourselves. By getting to know ourselves, we will discover what causes conflicts and crises in us. By working on ourselves, we best eliminate the causes of the crisis.

We communicate in a crisis when we want to solve a crisis situation, but what is a crisis situation, what is a crisis and who creates it.

We! We are creating a crisis ourselves.

So if we create it ourselves, we can save it ourselves! Yes, it’s that easy.
However, the biggest mistake we make is that we do not want to admit that we are the cause of the crisis, so we cannot solve it.

Whether we have caused the crisis ourselves or found ourselves in it in any way, we need to get out of it as soon as possible. A crisis is just a state of the relationship, the worse the relationship, the bigger the crisis. If we respond to an argument or a sad word, we have entered a state of crisis directly.

I have already read a lot and listened to how to effectively solve crises or. what communication techniques to use to solve the crisis or prevented. However, whenever we talk about technique, we are talking about some learned or. role played. So with the help of techniques we learn how to establish ourselves in a non-conflicting role. If we play roles, we are basically still in conflict and can cause crises.

Instead of spending a lot of time learning roles, it’s better to dedicate that time to getting to know yourself. For only when we know ourselves will we know what is inside us that causes conflicts and crises. Thus, by working on ourselves, we will begin to eliminate the causes. And we will never be in a crisis situation again and there will be no need to communicate in a crisis. When we know ourselves well enough, crisis communication can become our job, as others will hire us to resolve their disputes. As outside observers, we will see the real picture, and we ourselves will never fall into conflict.

Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager
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How to revive Yugoslavia?

By admin,30. September, 202018. December, 2020

We cannot accept the fact that Yugoslavia is no more. More and more people are dreaming and wishing those times would return. However, no one is aware that the same or a similar system can no longer be established, we can only make a new one, based on past experience, and much better.

Today I read an interview on the Sioloven portal with “psychoanalyst dr. Matjaž Lunaček: The greatest evils in our society are innocence and shamelessness ”. Such and similar interviews should flood the Slovenian media every day in order to finally make a room with Mirrors, where we would not be able to escape from our own image and would finally meet reality. Despite the fact that we have to lay the foundation of Slovenian values anew, this does not help us at all if we continue to swim in the puddle and wait for fresh water to flow into our sleeve; as we are part of a very large swamp system.

The only real solution is to set a new goal!

Yugoslavia was the period when, after hard work, great heat or a stressful situation, you step on the pier by the sea and a light wind blows that cools and relaxes you… it is that moment of pleasure that lasts a few minutes, it is the moment that slightly moves into the world of dreams, a little out of reality… and then we go back to that reality, which is cruel to us. Although it’s not really like that.

And where did it get complicated?

The Yugoslav nations were very hardened after the war, so they needed that breeze at the end of the pier and Tito knew how to do it, but the problem was that this breeze lasted 40 years, not a few minutes. And so this breeze, this moment of dreams, lasts too long and for most, for an entire generation, it has been a reality. But when this was over, we fell into another system in which we still do not find ourselves today and still crave the old breeze that will refresh us.

But what is the reality now, those 40 years or those 20 years? Both because reality is what we feel in that moment. And the Reality we knew for 40 years could also be our reality today, but 20 years ago we decided, for a different reality, for a different system that we didn’t know and we didn’t know, so we found ourselves today in crisis.
I am not saying that we should not secede and go our own way, but the same system as we had in Yugoslavia could only continue, we could still remain allies and connect with all related institutions and countries as before now. However, we opted for Democracy, which no one really knew. And now we are here, here, when we essentially do not know where.

When we approached independence, we approached it in a way that was too Partisan, the way we knew it; but we only wanted independence, and we didn’t know in what way, and because we didn’t have a new system, we fell into one big puddle, a swamp that is only lukewarm today.
So only a new system can save us from the crisis, a system that will be aimed at a clear goal.

We are now in Mlaka and how we behave there and which of our properties this Mlaka provoked, was nicely described by dr. Lunaček in the interview:

“Psychoanalyst Matjaž Lunaček: The greatest evils in our society are innocence and shamelessness
Author: David Kos
The social situation in Slovenia best suits the narcissistic type of patient, as the environment requires it. In it, we want to take care of ourselves as much as possible and push others away, says psychoanalyst Matjaž Lunaček.

Psychiatrist and psychoanalyst dr. Matjaž Lunaček is one of the leading psychoanalysts in our country. He was educated within the Italian Psychoanalytic Association in Italy. He deals with the application of psychoanalysis to literature and pedagogy. He devoted a long time to the development of the concept of kindergarten, guided by psychoanalytic principles. In 2011 he published a psychoanalytic thesis on Baptism at Savica entitled For a Different Fate, and last year the book Gymnasts Over the Abyss. It intertwines critical reflections on Slovenes, identity, social, cultural and political aspects.

Due to the unregulated social conditions in Slovenia, the narcissist will not come to therapy on his own, as the existing environment is painted on his skin. He seeks help only when something in his business life breaks down or he starts limping in the family circle. . He seeks help only when something in his business life breaks down or he starts limping in the family circle.

What is the psychoanalytic picture of Slovenia?

We know several directions in psychoanalysis. Sigmund Freud dealt mainly with neurotics, and later psychoanalysts, notably Melanie Klein, with the very early mechanisms of a child’s functioning through their play. In today’s social context, Freud’s approach is out of the question. Klein explored very elementary emotions, such as greed and envy, which are already almost at the level of primary effects, that is, completely unreflected and ill-considered effects. Such early mechanisms are very negative for the cohesion of the social fabric, as they are too focused on what the individual wants. Today, the individual is primarily interested in interest.

We can imagine this with the behavior of a young child who is only interested in being full. If this does not happen immediately, he initially becomes tearful and angry, and his end result is anger. Thus, when a certain obstacle is placed in front of the immediate satisfaction of needs, hostile feelings are triggered. This is absolutely true for many individuals in Slovenia who are either politically active or have excessive ambitions. That’s exactly what it’s about. When any obstacle is put in their way, which they should start to agree on or postpone their interests for a certain period of time, then the operation of the aforementioned mechanisms is triggered.

So it’s about narcissism?

Narcissism is a set of several early mechanisms that parents try to alleviate through upbringing. It is a mental disorder that is treated with psychotherapy and can also result in psychosomatic illnesses. However, due to the unsettled social conditions in Slovenia, the narcissist will not come to therapy on his own, as the existing environment is painted on his skin. He seeks help only when something in his business life breaks down or he starts limping in the family circle. Narcissus is also associated with the fantasy that he must live forever, so he does not accept mortality. This is also most characteristic of him, as he lives with the idea of omnipotence.

People today with a clear conscience deny something they really did. They do not have any problems with the feeling of guilt, as this feeling has drastically decreased. It was once an absolutely discarded act. People today with a clear conscience deny something they really did. They do not have any problems with the feeling of guilt, as this feeling has drastically decreased. It was once an absolutely discarded act.

Are these patterns of behavior in Slovenian society deepening?

Absolutely. Authorities like teachers who once meant something are today on the full defensive in front of parents. They are not interested in what the group will achieve in the classroom, but only in what their child will achieve within the classroom. Will he be able to push his classmates to be alone in the first place. This was clearly shown in the psychoanalytic kindergarten project, which I myself ran for a long time. It took parents more than two years to realize that it is more important how their children get emotionally closer to the rest of the group and develop emotion than what an individual achieves on a cognitive level. A child who is emotionally aligned also learns much faster. Unfortunately, the opposite is not true. The child’s rational part can help him in certain aspects, especially in technical matters, but not in relationships with people. As more and more parents are striving for this kind of upbringing, I am afraid that even worse times are ahead for us in this regard.

Is this a psychopathic story?

Parents play a dual role or upbringing towards their children. On the one hand, they pay too much attention to them and pamper them, which they usually do out of self-interest. We often hear a small child who barely speaks: “We have a motorhome” or “We are going to the Canary Islands”. At the same time, the parents want to discipline the already spoiled child, so they start frustrating him with threats of abandonment.

Such a child is overinvested on the one hand and emotionally abandoned on the other. On the road, we can see a crying child in need of comfort, but the parents leave him to his own devices. Mom tells him, “Now stop crying, or I’ll leave.” When the mother asks in the next phase why the child is crying, the child scolds her “you are evil”.

Authoritarian upbringing in the past has essentially done less harm to the child, as they knew exactly what sanctions would follow. But today’s child never knows what he’s up to. It all depends on the mood of the parent and his needs, whether he will deal with his child or neglect him.

Given the ever-increasing pace of today’s life and the problems parents bring home from work, it is often difficult to find the energy to raise properly.
To raise a child, we must have free valences and we must know how to listen to the child. It is wrong to take a child to leisure activities immediately after kindergarten or school without talking to him. A similar thing happens in the morning when both parents and children sleep until the last minute and then start pushing the child to school. If we give the child enough time in the morning, we can achieve amazing experiences together.

So which type of patient does Slovenian society suit at the moment?

Certainly narcissistic, as the social environment allows it, even demands it. In it, we want to take care of ourselves as much as possible and push others away. Due to the increasing workload, we can also speak in part of obsession.

People who are more interested in interpersonal relationships are constantly frustrated in today’s world. Those who have everything in abundance are also frustrated. In the aforementioned upbringing, people do not develop ethical and moral norms. The greatest evils in our society are innocence and shamelessness.

People today with a clear conscience deny something they really did. They have no problem with guilt. This feeling has dropped drastically. So today, no one in court accepts guilt and claims to the end that he is not guilty. Although we all know it is. It was once an absolutely discarded act.

Another such value, also derived from early child development, is the formation of positive shame. Shamelessness is strongly emphasized in our society when we calmly lie to someone in the face.
Politicians, too, should go to psychoanalysis to begin to be roughly aware of what they are doing. It is the contact with reality that is actually curtailed in the narcissistic population. If they ever give up in life, they may even be at risk of a psychotic state. Politicians should also undergo psychoanalysis to begin to be roughly aware of what they are doing. It is the contact with reality that is actually curtailed in the narcissistic population. If they ever give up in life, they may even be at risk of a psychotic state.

What kind of therapy would Slovenian society need?

An entire generation has already grown up in a system that has slipped into today’s situation. The national education program should be absolutely changed. Of course, we should return positive authority and their validity to key professions. These are professions of special importance that work with people and have a special impact on them because of their position. I am thinking here of teachers, doctors, politicians and also priests who have lost all their credibility to this day. This cannot be changed quickly.

Could we talk about the delusions of politicians? They seem to have a completely unrealistic picture of the situation in the country in their heads. Do you think some would need psychoanalytic treatment?

Absolutely, I said this some time ago for the clergy. Politicians, too, should go to psychoanalysis to begin to be roughly aware of what they are doing. It is the contact with reality that is actually curtailed in the narcissistic population. If they ever give up in life, they may even be at risk of a psychotic state. The combination of ambition and rapid political rise is all the more shaped by the special importance of politics than other professions. Such a situation is not stable, but it is a fantastic force for narcissistic people to act.

It seems that Slovenian politicians spend too much energy not to change anything.
Probably those who benefit greatly in such a mess do not want change.

We often hear about the crisis of values. Are we really facing the biggest crisis and disintegration of values in Slovenia?

Looking back a few generations, the positive values were more solid. People were dominated by so-called Protestant ethics, which was much more related to personal responsibility as well as to religious contexts. On the one hand, this is demanded by an autonomous entity, and on the other hand, certain values were tied to excessive consideration of authorities who did not deserve it. The time of Protestant ethics is over, but no new ethics has been formed.

The crisis of values is increasingly reflected in the workplace, and employees are constantly faced with stressful situations that lead to frustrations and traumas.
If we look at history, we find that workers’ rights have become ever greater with great effort and enormous sacrifices. Until there was neoliberalism, where they can do whatever they want with the workers again. With an army of unemployed people, they no longer have any moral obligations to employees.

I believe that this is a regressive process and the undermining of society or the state, where employers want to establish their order. Countries with traditions can put themselves on the sidelines, while Slovenia allows all this. Despite legalized standards in this area, there have always been loopholes in how to circumvent and circumvent legislation.
Very interesting is the rapid increase in the proportion of people suffering from insomnia. According to the latest statistics, it already covers 40 percent of people. It is known, however, that a bunch of psychosomatic problems occur in a sleepless person. It is very interesting that the proportion of people suffering from insomnia is rapidly increasing. According to the latest statistics, it already covers 40 percent of people. It is known, however, that a bunch of psychosomatic problems occur in a sleepless person.

What is the right relationship between work and private life? What does a 24-hour reach to an employer mean from a psychological point of view? Is it about running long distances?

It is a complete absurdity. We humans do not live to work, but we work to earn and live. There are, of course, some exceptions that claim to live for work. But they usually do not experience severe stress, as their work becomes a hobby and they are autonomous in their work. It is quite different with workers who work for their survival. This is extremely burdensome and inappropriate for him.

The history of the work went in the direction of limiting the work to a certain framework, which she did great. Despite the absence of mobile phones, only a small part of the employees had to be on constant standby and therefore adequately paid, as all the analyzes spoke of the extreme stress of such situations. With this, the worker could also afford something more in his free time. Today, however, most workers do not receive the permanent accessibility allowance and cannot create a better quality of life from this.

What are the first signs of burnout in the workplace? What health problems occur most often?

Very interesting is the rapid increase in the proportion of people suffering from insomnia. According to the latest statistics, it already covers 40 percent of people. It is known, however, that a bunch of psychosomatic problems occur in a sleepless person. Stressful situations severely weaken the immune system, and its absence causes a variety of diseases, including cancer. Thus, it is not surprising that regardless of the form of cancer, immune problems and stress are usually recorded in its diagnosis. These are therefore life-threatening burdens.

How to react in such a case?

We will do a lot of damage to the patient we want to save with medication and return to the work environment as soon as possible. In such cases, there should be a greater awareness, both in the health field and among people themselves, that they are willing to take more risks and say no to the employer. Although many today complain about how badly they live, no one dares to risk a dispute with an employer. Once upon a time, workers risked their lives for their rights, but today they are counting on someone else. And again, we are at the problem of individualism.

Is talking to a psychiatrist in Slovenia still a taboo topic?

Sorry still. However, during times of great personal hardship, the demand for a psychiatrist has increased significantly. I’m afraid a lot of psychotherapists today are only concerned with adapting people to bad conditions. It’s easier and faster, but less efficient. ”

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So Dr. Lunaček, nicely presented, in a professional but popular enough way, the situation in Slovenia and now at least 100 Lunaček, should raise their voices and say it in their own way, so that all those responsible would hear. Namely, only an example is the one that can move the masses, and an example is given by the highest peak of the country. I’m not talking here about what our leaders do because if we look at them, they’re all willing to help, they want good, justice, honesty… but this communication, they communicate to us only through visual work, which is 7% of communication, and we see the rest the other 93%, that invisible part. We really see their true face, we see their intention, I know who they are and there they are completely different than they present themselves. However, we have not yet gathered enough strength to be able to overlook it and say it out loud. But dr. Lunaček, he said this out loud, and these are voices that have a high enough frequency that the highest ones will hear them and even those 93% will start to communicate with us differently.

If we think about changing leaders, there will be no solution, because most of them work the same with those 93%, we have to raise everything to a higher frequency. One is the voice of the various Lunacs, and the other is the new GOAL.

Do we know where we would like to go?
Do we know how we're going to get there?
Do we even know who we are?

Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager
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Women… or how to win a man? Milan Krajnc

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Women… or how to win over a man?

By admin,30. September, 202018. December, 2020

Every day more and more as I get to know women, I know that we don’t come from the same planet, but we both really came from outer space, each from our own planet, and now we’ve met here by chance. And what is left for us but to somehow coexist now… although, every day is a very special art.

There are at least three people in every woman, the devil, the angel and the one who doesn’t know what to do with herself…. many times there is a bus carrying circus mascots.

And a man, as a fearless warrior trained to survive in the most difficult conditions, has to deal with all these masquerades completely on his own… for the most part he succeeds, but when he is beaten up, he uses alcohol or similar antibiotics. The biggest mistake they make, however, is when they go to another circus. Where there is an even better performance.

Well I don’t write so cynically because of any recent experiences, but after analyzing my past lives and following the lives of women from a distance.

I just can’t imagine going to a circus again unless I train to be a lion tamer or I just dress up as a clown.

When you talk to a woman about a woman… they say they are afraid of themselves… I have a feeling that women were the same all the time, only men are no longer such good lion tamers, but we just moved away to the stands and now we observe this mess where animals climbing one after another, performances line up without a concept and we just sit and watch.

We no longer know where to take. Preferably, we would shut everything down and go to Mom’s home.

Mom, mom, mom…. but mom is a woman too, she too is from some circus… and why we rush to them… because no one else has taught us to be a lion tamer.

I don’t know who will be the one to tear men away from their mothers, maybe we should take away women’s right to vote and reduce their salaries again, and limit their exits… but this will not be possible because men who should therefore vote will not give in to their mom.

We have come to a situation where women have complete control over men… in fact, they have now become tamers of lions … only lions are out of nowhere.

Dear men, I hope that the day will come when we too will rise from the dead and become men, because only in this way will we be able to reawaken women in women, not that men have now grown in them themselves and are self-sufficient. And we are their children.

And we still don’t see it, despite the fact that more and more of us are being beaten on the head… but, somewhere in the world, there are still men, although I don’t know exactly on which continents, because since whites went to Africa, blacks are no more what they were…. in Asia, however, more and more women are in power, Australia, one way or another, falls under the Queen of England… so we are left with only lonely islands and Alaska, or we will have to go deep into space for men to return to earth….

Oh, what makes me sick when I think like that, how low we have fallen… how men could even allow us to get down to that level… to think. Yeah, we obviously started using the wrong head. The crisis started when we started thinking.

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We will now invest billions to revive men on earth or let human civilization fail… basically, but there is no great philosophy here. Men need to start thinking less, may talk and work more. After all, today women support men…. simply, we need to get on our feet. However, every simple thing requires a lot of training. Therefore, it will be necessary to introduce training centers for men, as military service was once mandatory.

However, we men will have to do it ourselves, as it is quite favorable for women now, even though they are very dissatisfied deep down, so we men must do it as soon as possible, if this voice in women does not become too quiet and we look for it over the centuries, with radio telescopes. Where is the sound of a big bang possible today, but is it a scream that we men need to hear to wake up again?

Good morning!

Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager
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Twilight zone

By admin,29. September, 202017. December, 2020

(Between saying and doing, there is an ocean in between)

… Yes, yes, I know what you are going to say, you again, but you said that you will not be around for a while 🙂 but I cannot get out of my skin when I need a conversation, and only you accept me as I am…

… And I am not and will not change…

… I am in the phase of writing another book, in which the conversation with yourself and how you can become independent is described in more detail. A Past Handbook, Between Say and Do talks about the connection between changes in the business world due to personal changes. In the new handbook,
however, I focus only on the individual… and basically this content was created before the past, but it has only now matured and I with it.

… Well, that was just a prediction for a hot fall. 🙂

Summer is approaching and we are getting colder and colder, we say that the crisis is slowly fading away and we are returning more and more to our old habits… and that will not solve the crisis at all. We are stuck in a kind of dead end where strange things are born… we are basically in the world of shadows. Everybody has a dark side and a light side in themselves… if we live healthy there will always be a light side in the foreground, but if our way of life is looking for shortcuts, then our life will be lived by our shadow… and in such a dark world there is nothing to predict because we cannot see far in the dark and are constantly under stress… And that area is called twilight… it’s the time between speaking and realization… and longer when the beings in the twilight have more power and influence on our lives.

Yes, dear readers, this is where I end my twilight period…

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Alone for all

By admin,29. September, 202022. December, 2020

primary Darija Mateja Strah, gynecologist

Milan Krajnc, psychotherapist

The biggest problem for women today is that they forget themselves. If we look at how much work and tasks they have been given over the past decades, this is also a logical answer. However, the fact that the world continues to function “normally” does not mean that it must remain so. Women must become women again to keep the world in balance.

I had not even made it to the office door when my phone rang. I answered it when someone whispered to me…

“When are you coming into the office?”. “In three minutes,” I whispered back.

The lady was waiting for me at the door. A lady of every description. She smiled at me. It was the first time I was mistaken for a lady, especially a prospective client. The bag fell awkwardly out of my hands. I looked for the keys, but in all the
confusion I could not find them. I asked her quietly, “Did you whisper?” “Yes”, she
smiled at me.

But when I managed to find the keys, unlock them and get to my office through all the rooms, I offered her a place on the work couch. First I offered her coffee, then even something short. Which she accepted both. Four minutes later I was back with everything, served her and said there was no need to whisper.

So we interrupted the initial trembling with laughter – it was her first visit to me
and I got confused.

“What brought you to the coast so early?” I asked her.

“Otherwise I have no time, I cannot make it at all… I try to be a good employer, a good wife, a good mother. Good at everything, if not first-class. But for two weeks I have felt suffocated. I went to my doctor, and he told me I did not need medication, that it was better to talk to someone… And since I am following your post, I came looking for you. “

“Thanks,” I said. “First, can you describe your day for me?”

“I am already at the pool at six in the morning, swimming until 6:50. At 7.10 I go to the hairdresser. At 8.15 I pick up the children from the home and take them to school. At 9.00 a.m. at the company we start school and then I work until I am done. The employees leave at 4:00 pm because we are a family-friendly company. That is when I usually finish all the things they have not done. Around 7pm I go home when I pick up the kids from my mum’s, where they go after school and all the activities. My husband comes home at the same time, very tired, so I prepare dinner for everyone. Then we chat until 9.30 pm when the children go to bed and I do something else until midnight and fall into bed. When my husband is too tired, he snores, and I fall asleep right in the office. And it’s been that way for years… Every day is just like the day. And now, at 42, I cannot go on, I want something else… I do not know how, just another drug.

As she said her last words, she took a deep breath and just laid back down… “Please save me,” she said with her last breaths.

I also leaned back in my chair and thought a little. Hmm, the person cannot say NO they need much attention… But why did I have such a strange feeling this morning? I look at all my clients very professionally, from a distance. It never occurred to me that anyone would move me or think of anything but a professional relationship.

We were both quiet for about 10 minutes and sipped coffee in between.

“Why are you quiet?” she asked me.

“Because that is exactly what you need right now – to look up in the air and do nothing… It will do you more good than conversation. We were quiet for another ten minutes.

Then I asked her if she would smoke a cigarette…

I do not see why not…

She slowly sat up and said she had not felt that good in a long time.

“Actually, you have to relax or fall asleep first and then add fun to your schedule. Above all, you should no longer be available for others.

Your employees have to organize their work so that it is done on time. I did not see from your story that your husband supports you in any way…

Let’s agree to make a list of all the activities you think should be done at home and at work until next time, and write down what you do and what the others do.

When she waited for me at the door three days later, I had that feeling again… Only this time I showed no confusion, I even found the keys immediately.

We repeated the same procedure – again I left them for almost half an hour, staring into the air. I offered her a cigar again. Then she pulled a list of activities from her handbag, which had writing almost everywhere on it.

“What could your employees, your husband and your children do?”

She took the red pen and circled 80% of the activities…

“And why not?” I asked her.

“Because they do not know so well!” She answered sharply..

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I turned to the large window through which the clearing stretched to the sea.

“Do you see that nature? Nature is perfect, but there are many things one does not do. He does them exactly when he has to, and everything always comes out. Nature just knows that everything will be fine. And you think it never will? And that is the difference between yours and their perfection. Nature works spontaneously, it works the way it feels. It’s not in control. But you do not feel what you are doing, and you want to be in control. When you start to pass on these 80% of the tasks to others, the world keeps on turning, even though they may not be done exactly as you have imagined.

I gave her two drills. The first is called DETACHMENT BELT – she set alarms on her phone that will ring three times a day for the next three weeks. Each time it rings, I ask myself: Who am I? And what do I feel? This is when he begins to become aware of the given moment. Before he says YES too quickly, he is aware of the consequences. The second exercise, called MIRROR, helps us to recognize messages from our surroundings. I have advised her to always assign some tasks in advance after each encounter. We said goodbye.

Three weeks later she came to the meeting just in time, but she came in a tracksuit, completely changed… But the feeling with me was still the same.

She herself began to say: “You know, the first three days were very di cult. I thought I would call you and tell you that I would stop with these exercises and instructions. But because I am diligent, I want to do every task to the end. After three days, I suddenly had more than an hour left. At the office I thought of the same couch you have. That hour o” in the day, I lay dreaming, just as you suggested. I got back the feeling of what it was like to be a dreamy little girl. After 14 days, I completed all 80% of the tasks. During this time I also read your book in which you mention that we directors must have free Fridays. Well, today is Friday, and I have a day off”.

I have seen that this military tempo could be effective in another direction.

“How do you feel now after all this?” I asked her.

“I relaxed, breathed and began to discover myself as a woman. The colleagues did not complain at all when I shared the tasks with them, now they feel even more like part of the company. The children grumbled a little, but now they are great because they go to school alone in the morning, by bus, like the other classmates. They also come home earlier, they do not go to mom’s anymore, so they have more time for friends. Only the man has somehow moved away. After a long time I approached him, but he kind of pushed me away and said that he was very tired… And I thought about myself a little bit, but maybe I am not attractive enough or maybe I have neglected him all these years and maybe he has another… Countless questions that I have asked myself…

In fact, I saw that I had neglected myself and everyone around me a lot. I made sure that everyone had everything. But I was not really paying attention to anyone. Now I am much more relaxed with my children and work colleagues, we have more time for conversation. I feel I feel it again. In fact, I am just beginning to discover myself, I am just beginning to discover what I am like as a woman…”

She paused for a moment and then suddenly asked the question in peace and quiet: “What does it mean to you to be a woman?

This almost threw me o” my chair, because I understood exactly what she was asking me.

With her question I understood why these feelings came up during our meetings. Her feeling of suffocation did not come from too much work, but from the woman waking up. By helping her to reorganize her life, I let the genie right out of the bottle. Your wife began to live…

I turned to her. ‘I see that you have begun to discover who you are and that you feel that you have missed a lot in your life. Before answering this question, I could perhaps contact my colleague who is a gynecologist, but as a woman and an expert, she will be able to describe exactly what is happening to you and take you forward.”

I called the mayor Darija Mateja Strah and arranged their meeting.

It often happens that the client apparently falls in love with the counselor/psychotherapist because he is usually the only one who hears him and accepts him as he is and he can relax completely. Of course this is not true love, but only an emotional compensation that the person has neglected for a long time. We are specially prepared and also trained during our studies to ensure that we do not get involved with our clients in any way.

On my recommendation she turned to the doctor. She was punctual as always, but this time she came especially neatly, with a completely fresh hairstyle, make-up. Like out of a box.

“Good afternoon, I was told it would be good to contact you, although I already have my gynecologist… Well, what more can you offer me than other gynecologists? She looked at Darija a little too much.

Primarius Strahova looked at her like a companion under her glasses and immediately recognized the signs of jealousy. She met many women in her clinic and with more than 20 years of experience. Even those who, out of inner fears and uncertainties, which they naturally hide, start a conversation with a person by trying to reject him. They make her realize that they are perfect, that their value is far above that of others. And that they have not come because they are in need. Behind every woman’s insincerity is usually something other than just health care or advice on how to get through the day more easily every day.

She smiled slightly at them and asked them bluntly, “How is your sex life?

She almost fell off the table… “What do you mean? Yes… I mean… “She could not find the words.

“I understand, ma’am. You did not. In spite of your husband and the daily admiring glances of other men, you are really alone with everything. “

She leaned back, crossed her legs and nervously fixed her curled lock of hair. The filling had disappeared. It was necessary to look into the face of the woman sitting in front of her. She looked up. Silence. Then they laughed out loud. The charge eased. “I thought I had to take the Pap test, and you are about to start on another subject”. “A subject for real women, is not it?” The doctor winked at her. “I know the feeling. I know the feeling. Very good.”

The lady had still not quite decided how much to say about herself.

“You know, maybe it’s only 0.01% of my life, but I feel it means more than 50% to me. Then she looked honestly at the doctor: “Yes, I feel very unfulfilled. I want to be wanted, I just do not want men to see me as a sexual object or a man as an accessory for needs. I noticed how women looked at me eagerly, they just wanted to desire me. I have had offers… But I did not decide, although I was tempted. How do you feel about it? Would you respond to such an offer? “

Primarius’ fears became somewhat awkward as the lady oscillated between extreme introversion and expansive sincerity.

Primarius’ fears became somewhat awkward as the lady oscillated between extreme introversion and expansive sincerity. She replied: “You know, I too get such offers from time to time here at the clinic. Of course I do not mix up work and company. It is important to follow your feelings and at the same time to preserve your dignity. But perhaps you are mistaken about the importance of the views of certain women. Me, strong, maybe even too strong women who do a lot, especially in the field of career, but at the same time you know that we also have a family and children and also move regularly and watch theater, poetry, good films or anything else that interests us, we arouse a certain respect and admiration in others because many of us want to be like us. We all look around us and want to be like someone else, a seemingly extraordinary person for us. Perhaps you feel the views of people of the same sex in a way that you are the only one to experience, so connect them with it. And that is your hidden deficit. That something that would belong only to you, intimately connected to the man you love. And that is the femininity that is a little on the horizon right now.

By burying yourself in the work, you have directly “buried” the woman in you and taken on many a male role, which you probably fulfilled even better than a man. And so slowly the man no longer saw in you the woman he had married and had children. He sees you as a work friend, as a man he can rely on, he may even have a hidden complex, and he feels threatened by you, because he sees you as an extremely capable person. When a woman takes on male roles, she also becomes similar to them inwardly. It upsets the hormonal balance. No more of that scent, those pheromones that excite a man in her husband. But others, women, have felt it too. That is why you intercepted so many of their views, you obviously “masculinized” them.

Mr. Krajnc sent you here not only for an investigation, but to find out why you do not feel like a woman. As a gynecologist, I am not only concerned with how to heal a woman’s body, but I must be a good connoisseur of a woman’s soul, I must understand all her hormonal events that change in life. I have to recognize and help sexual problems. I have to encourage those who are transformed by their present life into hard workers who forget themselves. I need to teach them how to help themselves in this stressful life, both on their own and with the help of hormones, which are still carried by the mistaken general belief that they are harmful. I advocate a holistic approach to the individual. If the balance is disturbed somewhere, a holistic approach is needed to start “healing” on the right side, otherwise we can cause a domino effect. We will do a blood count and certain other tests and look at what you are missing on a physical level. We will combine the results with the findings of Mr. Extreme and together we will find an explanation for your reactions… But the most important thing is to change you and your well- being. In this way you will react differently to the environment or. the environment to you and your priorities will also change. “

“I will go for tests tomorrow, and if the results are available immediately, we can meet again this week …”, she agreed immediately. “It’s valid,” said Dr Fears. “But let us finish our consultation. And perhaps I will do another gynecological examination to check for some physical signs.

Women in their 40s are at the height of their psychophysical abilities.

Most have children who are at least old enough to be left without their safe but often protective supervision for a while each day. You are beginning to take care of yourself physically again, I must praise you here because you swim regularly, do not you? Swimming is mainly suitable for even muscle strengthening, but for some women it is less suitable because of chlorine and sometimes objectionable water. Chlorine affects the mucous membrane of the vagina, and it often happens that you then come for a gynecological examination because of an unpleasant discharge. “

“Hmm,” she said, “sometimes this happened to me several times, but every time I went to my gynecologist, he would only prescribe vaginal Canesten pills, sometimes he would not even look at me. It will pass, he said. “The doctor continued: “With personal gynecologists, more than 5,500 women are assigned to a single clinic, which is why the queue is so long and urgent examinations are often not available. I can take a lot of time for a single patient because I work in a self-paying clinic. Above all, I spend a lot of time talking to each other and trying to get to know the individual patient as well as possible so that I can help her as much as possible. And I ask every woman about her intimate life, among other things. Women do not start such a conversation of their own accord, but when asked, they open up and confide in me many problems. What surprises everyone is the many ways in which doctors can help. At the beginning I would like to ask you something very basic: What kind of contraception do you use? “The lady sat down. “Like everything,” she said, “pills, but I do not even know why I take them, considering my husband and I only get intimate a couple times a year. Even if I did not eat them… “she murmured more to herself than she did to the doctor.

“There are a lot of pills, more than 20 different kinds, but we have other kinds of protection. I asked you with a specific purpose. Like most people, you do not really know your medications because doctors rarely take the time to explain why they have chosen a particular therapy. They do not even know what the drug is called. You are a normal woman in this field, “the doctor laughed. “And please do not start describing to me the color of the cover and the pills, because that way we cannot know all the drugs, right? What exactly is your sexual desire? “

The lady sighed. “Um,” she said, “when I was younger and at the beginning of my relationship with my current husband, it was really quite different. Sometimes I find myself thinking about sex all the time. “Primarius Strahova laughed. “A few days a month? Nature does everything at a certain time. Except we are not aware that he does it for a reason. When a woman who is not using hormonal contraception has time to ovulate, her body releases a little more testosterone, but even this very small amount causes her thoughts to focus on sexuality. Why?Basically, we are also made to continue the species, just like any other species. And at a time when we can become pregnant, we feel a particularly strong desire. Men do not have any problems with their libido because of their structure and hormones, they are for the most part always in favor. However, they say that the greatest aphrodisiac is a woman’s willingness to make physical love. When the emotions, which are usually always in the foreground with a woman, step back from the primary desire and the man feels most desirable, then he feels more than he can feel. At that time there were only two roles: male as male and female as female. Usually a woman then becomes pregnant at some point in her life and the story changes radically. Well, we should not just focus on the child, but in most cases that is exactly what happens. We turn a man into a father, and a wonderful, desirable woman becomes a creature with countless roles, so that her basic feminine nature is completely lost. This is also completely natural, as nature again ensures that the puppy has the best chance of survival. However, since the puppy leaves the house very late, some unfortunately never, which is not natural, partners can be lost forever. And we have to learn how and when we as partners can draw the line between parenthood and our own relationship. Some know this, but most are lost. And then it is often too late. But let’s get back to my field. I do not know what pill you are on, but in view of what I am about to tell you, it’s not even that important. The hormones prescribed by your gynecologist belong to the group of pills that cause a reduction in sexual desire in about a fifth of women. When the active ingredient starts to circulate in the bloodstream, it can quickly bind to so-called “sex hormone-binding globulins“, small carriers that otherwise bind the tiny amount of testosterone that every woman has to deliver to target organs throughout the body. By binding another substance, testosterone cannot bind to it, and its role in generating desire is limited. And what happens: A woman who is basically afraid of an unwanted pregnancy feels safe, but what if she no longer has any interest in sex? A paradox of life arises, which of course no man understands. Now that it is really justified, one has protection and rejects intimacy, but who would understand us? Even the women themselves are not aware of this at first, but after a while they simply realize that maybe something is wrong. When they return to the gynecologist, these facts must of course be disclosed. The question is, however, whether it is possible to tell them everything in a single examination every 3 years. When was the last time you had a gynecological examination? “The lady thought. “I cannot remember very well, maybe a good two years ago?”

The doctor leaned back.

“We professionally recommend a gynecological exam every year, but it does not Health Insurance Company cover it. Have you ever had a breast ultrasound in your life? “No,” she said in surprise. “I mentioned it, but the gynecologist said he did not do it and that I should wait until I was 50 when they would do my first breast exam. That is eight years from now, unimaginably long. “” And an ultrasound of the internal birth canal, the ovaries? “” She said convincingly, “” For all I know, the doctor will take a smear and touch me. Sometimes my body is kind, and sometimes it hurts. When I tell him that I am in pain when he takes my smear, he waves his hand and says, “It cannot hurt.

Women over 40 should follow one rule: Take some time for yourself. Only then will you stay calm inside. I suggest some blood tests: blood count, cholesterol and lipids, water analysis. However, on the first and second day of your monthly wash, you will donate blood for some hormones. When you have collected everything, call me. I want to help you as soon as possible, “the doctor closed and smiled. They said goodbye friendly. They favored each other…

She knocked on my door without warning. She brought me a crate of Cubans, straight from Cuba. “Good morning, I brought your favorites”, she smiled broadly.

“You know, all the conversations I had with you and the energy that was triggered, it gave me a very strong sense of self-confidence. The time has come for me to really live out my perfection. I am a mother, I have developed my career, now I only have to develop myself, as a being, as a woman. I made this leap with your team, now I realize what life as a whole means. Thank you for bringing my life back. “

She hugged me and left!

Because of all the personal hardships, the successful businesswoman turned to a psychotherapist who asked her for help. They found that it was not only a psychological reaction but also a physiological imbalance. Together with a gynecologist, they found out that a woman needs a hormonal balance for a healthy attitude towards herself, which becomes a real rarity for a modern, busy businesswoman. Preventive maintenance of a woman’s health, based on examination, analysis of stress and other hormones and the right treatment, is one of the basic requirements for a woman to begin to build up a more holistic and also psychological attitude. The aim of the joint work of the two experts is not to eradicate the current plight of the individual, but to try to prevent burnout forever. To teach a woman how to lead a healthier and happier life and to nourish every day what she loses through overwork: the right to be just a woman for one day. With all due respect for himself, he also teaches his environment what he really needs. Such a woman becomes a man at work, in her family and in the intimate world, who can give her energy back to those who treat her with respect.

continued: Business Woman’s Husband: “I was after her!”

Primary Darija Mateja Strah she is a specialist in gynecology and obstetrics with 20 years of practice. She helps women of all ages by treating the individual holistically. She aware them of how to be a healthy woman by balancing hormones and body. Fear Diagnostic Center, info@strah.si;

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Life is not a competition, it is a journey!

By admin,29. September, 202017. December, 2020

When we embark on a journey, we must always go to the end... even if life itself is a journey!

And the sooner we understand it, the easier it becomes for us… because every journey, when we imagine it in physical form… in between we experience a change of weather, the day turns into night, we meet different people who react differently to us… so every journey is very different… and always interesting… can we say that everything goes wrong for us, or that we do not even remember how we came to the end? … But the journey is always interesting… with such a positive note we have to experience it… because otherwise we always have the feeling that we are burning, unhappy and depressed… it’s all just an experience, a positive experience that always brings us something good in the end!

A great journey through life consists of several smaller paths, and each path is only finished when it ends well – on the path, we have to pay attention to our feelings, when we feel that we are doing something by force, we have to stop if we want to change direction, but we do not feel it in our heart… means it’s not the right time… to feel… to those I say we feel in our hearts… for so long, we will go around in circles.

The vicious circle ends when we stop working against ourselves!

So the time has come for us to start listening to ourselves… the crisis that has occurred was done with the intention of freeing us from as many things as possible that are not important in our lives… so we can finally see where we are making a mistake… so that we can take a break and rest in life… to see if we are on the right track. And silence must be every day!

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The journey has begun . . . Back to yourself!

By admin,29. September, 202017. December, 2020

16 years ago, when I started with personal counseling, the path led me to the primary image of man.

Who am I? Where do I go? Basically, I saw that the people inside are very dirty, that we live in mountains of garbage… I called it Psychological Garbage. So before we even start looking for an answer to the question “Who am I? Where am I going? We will have to cleanse ourselves thoroughly to be able to deal with ourselves… even though it is cleansing in itself to be able to deal with ourselves… so any search for the meaning of life, for connecting with ourselves… will not help until, let’s clean up thoroughly. So any rituals that we do are unfortunately a waste of time… it is necessary to look at the environment as a mirror of one’s inner self.

However, not to be too wise, I have the feeling that in the last few years, since the beginning of the socalled global crisis, we have been forced to look inside ourselves, because we had no way out but to take refuge within ourselves… and so we are now in the process of major renovations, our interior… but when we renovate our interior, it’s very important that we also do a maintenance schedule… of course we are not going to write a program… but that we actually start living so we do not bring in garbage anymore…

… Example… to toast with a glass of wine… .k a friend comes to you and opens a bottle to toast your big event… Pour a glass and look him in the eye… …and say hello… But you know that there are at least 68 kinds of wine poisons in this glass… so they explained to me in Šuman Wine Cellar where they make
wine in a purely natural way, as they used to do…

… But wine is really only one of the things we put into our bodies, how much is everything else? from the information we get on television, on the internet… to the curses and slander we hear around us… of course you are gonna say that we are all on the same ship and that it’s hard to avoid…

… But it’s not quite the way, how we are together and gradually dirtying ourselves and our planet … so we are also going to clean up slowly… ourselves… nobody is gonna come from outer space, we are gonna have to roll up our sleeves …

… so we have to start with the little things that are most important to us… Information, food… these foods… what is healthy here at all… if everything grows from dirty earth… if we cannot collect it already, we can collect combinations… because, different food combinations make it even more toxic… and while reading and searching for a “healthy diet” I came across the Paleo diet.

… is the healthiest way to eat, because it is the only nutritional approach that fits our genetics and helps us stay slim, strong and full of energy! Research in biology, biochemistry, ophthalmology, dermatology and many other scientific disciplines shows that the modern diet, full of processed foods, trans-fatty acids and sugar, is one of the main causes of degenerative diseases such as obesity, cancer, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s, as well as depression and infertility. – Robb Wolf

… Well, I skimmed a little bit about this Robb and this kind of diet, until I really saw how they turned the way of eating upside down … but does that mean I have to stop eating… what I like best… and how to make it all up… so I came across recipes posted on their blog by Tina Trtnik

… No, no … this is not a PR article, now that I look and browse, I see that there are many such solutions and topics… just like Šumanovi or Tina, who have built a history of renewal of wine and food culture… so I am interested in the spiritual and emotional renewal SiriusPersonalTransormation and the dynamic communication model čemer, which you have read about on this blog…

… My methods serve to renew the human soul, but without preserving the body, the soul cannot remain pure…

Slowly a critical moment is coming, when we will step out of the shadow of our life and call the sun into our life… So all of you who have similar tools as the Schumans and Tina…

write to info@sirius.si and thus make a new turn in the image of man, back to yourself.

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It is true that it is in my nature to find myself in such situations perfectly and then lead the directors to success. However, as I analyzed my work as to why my work was successful, I saw that I continued to work as a teacher.

In a company where I come to solve different things, I create a kind of classroom where I teach employees new organizations and different approaches and my work is exactly the same as it was when I taught at school, or I was taught at the Faculty of Education in Maribor. From this I was then given the title by which I am known among my followers today – TEACHER OF LIFE.

In the article you are reading, I am not praising the Faculty of Education, but I want to emphasize that we are not aware of our primary path and institution and that if we do not change our path, we do not see all the added value we get for life. In comparison, I wanted to show the added value of a teacher compared to other professions. It is true that the teaching profession is underestimated today, but we are largely to blame for the teachers themselves, as we do not know how to appreciate our work and ourselves.

Therefore, perhaps in the process of teacher education, it would be necessary to add more self-aware paths to build this self-confidence from the inside of each student, rather than through the status and receipt of a diploma.

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Directors are the greatest martyrs

By admin,29. September, 202022. December, 2020

I was just on my way home when I saw many enlightened faces of women staring at the phones and smiling left and right next to me at the traffic lights… Their faces showed that they were corresponding with their prince on a white horse, although they had never seen him. But apparently in a virtual image and through correspondence they revived the image they had dreamed of… Basically I do not know who was on the other side, but for them it was enough that the feelings they had dreamed of were born in them. So their life became full, even if they will never see it, or they are completely different than they imagine.

Basically, women do not need a prince 24 hours a day because they get bored easily… …but he does not have the fitness to handle it either. In fact, she needs the prince at least once a month to rekindle this feeling again and again. Women do not need much, but if they need a lot, they need 100%.

And what shocked me most about these women with brighter faces is that Friday night… a kind of family holiday and ONE alone on the road, probably alone and lonely in their lives too… now that I was also on the road, alone !!!!

But those princes with whom the girls with the brighter faces chatted may have been themselves on that holiday evening.

Many of them are alone on this festive evening, even when the house is full, they are alone, lonely.

In my work, I find that most of those who are alone and lonely at the top and play the role of leader are directors…

I just wonder why someone hurries up there… his way up is like the way of the cross and then he comes to “that” summit… where he is surrounded by employees, customers, taxes, inspectors… and finally health… why is it necessary for him You are a kind of savior, on the cross as a reminder to all… “Do not go, do not lead… just be polite somewhere and follow the Highest One”.

And who is the greatest … nobody knows! Literally.

We all follow someone somewhere in the country, even those who lead, follow someone… …but do not know who… just tell whom, because that is the way… they follow the system.

The system is long dead, but we still follow it. And who can change the system… Yes, ourselves… and why not, because we do not know what others will say … and who the others are, hmmm basically we ourselves… and then why do not we change the system… because that is just the way it is.

And then we all go home, turn on TV and listen to what others will say, because that is the way it’s been… and so on for almost 30 years indefinitely.

I really do not know sometimes who is more “normal”, those who go to psychiatry to get a break from this “normal” world, or WE who they consider a little bit crazy.

We are always looking for someone on the outside who is to blame for everything and who is gonna save everything… and then we act like HE is to blame.

And why do we never ask ourselves if we are responsible for the why! What can we do with ourselves to make the world different, or are we just going to follow…

The time has come where we will only follow ourselves if we do not want the system to lead us into some dead world where the heart stops beating, where there is no feeling that we ever existed… no one will save us if we are not alone. But there is no need to fight anyone, just shake hands and pull ourselves out of this black hole we have been living in for decades. This black hole is nothing more than a system we have been living in for almost 30 years… we are not basically trapped, we just have to stand up and look over the edge… oh, well, there is another world, a world where the sun shines.

The directors have misunderstood their role “today”. The era of the kings who ruled is long gone, but they put themselves in the role of absolute rulers, which means that they deprive their employees of all power, responsibility and freedom … because we are in a time when the sun is shining … the directors are running out of power to manage all this, and instead of slowly arranging everything at the top … they are slowly becoming prisoners of what they have set up.

Modern directors are no longer rulers, it’s simply their job. In the future, there will be no more superiors and subordinates, no more employees and employers… the system will begin to function like nature, the companies will function in the form of a Project Office, there will be working groups that only have responsibility… and everyone will create his own jobs where he will see that he can contribute with his mission / potential to the valorization.

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The new generations will no longer understand what we are doing now, why some of them burned out, why they sacrificed their lives for the company, why they sacrificed themselves for others, why they ended up in psychiatry (physically they will ask themselves, what was that all about?)… all the pain we live in will turn into joy. This plague that is now killing entrepreneurs/directors/bo will be healed if
we start to socialize for the sake of socialization and not for material and status reasons.

My dear readers, let these “holidays”, whatever you call them, remind you that it is not necessary to die, to be born again, not to suffer, to be better people… we can all do this without suffering or having a guilty conscience… just listen to your heart.

Author of the article: Milan Krajnc pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com

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School of Dynamic Leadership Model for companies

By admin,29. September, 202022. December, 2020

School of Dynamic Leadership for companies

A dynamic leadership model is running a company according to natural principles. Just as nature runs its processes, without stress and limiting time schedules, and in the end everything always happens as it should; we can run a business in the same way.

The purpose of education is to learn to run a business as it really should, without games, stress and critical situations. We will teach you what you have not heard in any school.

With the Dynamic Leadership Model, everything is simple.
You will learn the basics of psychology, nature, relationships, leadership…

The biggest advantage of a dynamic leadership model is:

to get to know yourself very well,
that in all crises or. In critical situations, you see simple solutions,
to make the most of your time and there is no more empty space,
that you are constantly evolving and progressing, and that there are no more setbacks in life,
the goals are clear all the time,
the business goal is subordinated to the personal,
separate personal and business life,
no negative stress
the process develops your potential,
clear communication,
evenly distributed responsibility,
you can live your dreams.

Program

We divided the training into 4 modules, as we train for the entire model in each one. The most important thing is the balance between all the modules.

1:MODULE:PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION –

The basis of the Dynamic leadership model is a good knowledge of ourselves, because if we know ourselves well, we will know what we want, where our abilities are, what more do we need to do to make progress. Above all, the emphasis is on the psychology of personality, leadership, and relationships. We give ourselves an answer as to who we are and where we are going. Duration: 20 hours

2: MODULE: BUSINESS PROCESSES –

business processes are like “river channels” that irrigate the entire territory where we live and from which we make a living, so they must be conducted optimally. It is the same with business processes, when we know exactly where we are going, we make the processes optimal according to all legal and communication parameters. The emphasis is on learning about nature, natural processes and solutions, and above all how to look at legislation and administrative processes differently so that we do not experience stress and additional costs.

Duration: 10 hours

3. MODULE: COMMUNICATION –

communication is like a “stream in nature”, if it is clear and drinkable, then everything around it is alive and healthy, if there is not enough water, puddles are formed and with bad smell and taste, everyone is looking for their way, but if there is too much water , but everything “healthy” can disappear. Therefore, it is necessary to choose the right measure of communication and information. We will learn to understand the interlocutor and communicate, exactly what is needed for a successful business process. Organize meetings, and lead colleges, which becomes the focal point of the business process.

Duration: 10 hours

4. MODULE: PROJECT OFFICE –

the project way of working and the project office is a perfect reflection of the natural way of working, as nature works according to the basics of project work. Therefore, we will learn the basics of project work and the operation of nature, and organize your company in the form of a project office.

Duration: 20 hours

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Who is the program inteded for?

To anyone who runs a business or public institution
Those who are opting for an independent entrepreneurial path.
For the successors of family businesses.
For those who think your business is in crisis.
For those of you who think you can’t do more than you’ve done in life.

Upon completion of the training, you will receive a certificate of competence in Dynamic Leadership of the Company.
Each participant also has 10 hours of personal counseling and 5 hours of business counseling.

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Phone number: 01 589 76 51

Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager
I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com

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1:MODULE:PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION –

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3. MODULE: COMMUNICATION –

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