How can one spend time in Isolation? Milan Krajnc
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How can one spend time in Isolation?

The period of self-isolation will not end so quickly. This means that our life habits will change completely. We will be limited to a few square meters and to certain people.

Perhaps even such a virus is “welcome” in a way, because the pace of life has become too fast, we have simply lost the compass completely, we have gone wild at such a speed that we no longer know who we are and where we are going. But now we are forced to calm down and stop. Even if we used to exercise regularly, our body is tired. This tiredness is hidden in our cells.

That is why it is important to get enough sleep first and to set a schedule or a new routine. After all, the most important thing is not to “dissolve”, but at the same time not to be too strict with ourselves.

This is an ideal time to focus on ourselves and find out who we are and what we want. Because life after the “crisis” will be completely different. We will become more aware and more aware of ourselves and our needs. Above all, we will begin to value our time.

Everything we have given at birth is time. And it depends only on us how we will survive it and with whom we will share it. And the less time we devote to ourselves, the harder it will be to feel ourselves at all.

It is important to exclude external information such as bad news in this time trenutku as much as possible and concentrate on yourself.

It is important to start to discover what you like. And when the crisis is over, continue with this “habit” when the possibilities are even greater. You will see that you like to discover yourself, especially through your eyes, that it is a story without limits, and so you will concentrate completely on yourself, on your energy, and the outside world will suddenly no longer interest you.

How to spend time in isolation? Milan Krajnc

How to begin?

After you have fallen asleep and rested. The period of calming down and resting lasts about 10 days, but if you say now I have to start doing something when I do not feel crazy. This is the right time to start working on yourself.

1. First of all you have to take care of your body. You must take the body like a machine. A machine that needs to be maintained regularly and supplied with energy. We must start to discover what our body likes. Not all sports are suitable for everyone. Now that you are limited in your movement, you can do this by familiarizing yourself with body stretching exercises and breathing exercises. In this way, you can make the body flow, there is no more energy accumulation causing nausea. At the same time you can start doing strength exercises, especially for your back and abdominal muscles.

Physical fitness is especially important because of the thought processes, because changing habits, fears, pain… these are all thought processes, and the more fitness we have, the easier it is to bear or to overcome.

Thinking processes are processes that take place in the brain, and the brain needs enough oxygen and fresh blood to function, which can only be achieved through movement. So it is important that when we say we are starting to work on ourselves, we start with the body.

When the crisis is over, we will start to think further and discover the sports we like. We do not have to practice just one sport all the time, how we change, how our needs change.

The most important thing here is to listen to yourself all the time, what you like. Do not do a particular sport because your friends like it, so that they are not
alone; or that you feel guilty because someone is running a marathon and you only go to dance practice twice a week… it’s important that you like it.

Even if it is about “fuel” for the body, it is important not to listen to others about what is healthy. It is important that each individual has what they like and what their body needs.

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2. The next step is the work on yourself or. personal growth is the discovery or. getting to know the intellect. Namely, that we need to give our brains something else to think about, not what we do all day. So there is nothing wrong with crosswords, video games, art studies… just to have something else to think about… the worst thing is to have TV, facebook, twitter… and other similar social networks. Because then someone else is thinking for us. 3. The next step is to discover our emotions. Emotions are not love, romance, art… but what entertains us, where we feel good… So love is just a reflection of discovering emotions. Emotions are really fun. So we have to start doing only what we like. But that does not mean that we only do one thing. But with what is available to us and what needs to be done, we do it the way we like it. Do not do things because someone told you to do them, do them the way you feel right, and have fun doing them. 4 The last step to discovering your personality is to discover your inner peace. What is it that calms you? Try meditation, prayer, knitting… Meditation or. the search for inner peace basically focuses on one thing until you no longer hear what is going on around you. And if you complete all four of these steps equally within ten days and do it regularly. This means that you will find the key to your balance, or in other words, to your inner peace. Namely, the inner peace that all people around the world are looking for is always within us, we just have to make it. In the order I have described to you, which should not take longer than half an hour per day, you will find inner peace.
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However, the time you spend now should first be used to find out who you are and what you want in the first place. The most difficult part is the beginning. That is why I do not expect, and it is not even healthy if you start tomorrow. Start with an activity and then add slowly. Namely, that rapid change is the worst thing in our lives. That is why we can say that the time of isolation will basically be the time when we have to prepare for a new, better, more peaceful life that follows the crisis.

The time after the crisis will really be our time, which means that by establishing our inner peace we will create the conditions for our potential, our diamond, our value to shine in full light.

So let us take the time to calm down inwardly and be prepared for the time ahead. After all, the real crisis will only come when the health crisis is over. That is why it is important that we calm ourselves down now as much as possible, that we get to know ourselves, that we create a band of positive energy around us, so that
opportunities arise that correspond to our potential for the people we will be joining.

In times of crisis, the worst thing is to blame others for looking for all kinds of excuses; now it is important to look inside ourselves and see what we can make the best of all this, especially out of ourselves.

Above all, it is important to talk to the people you live with. Not to mention the weather and the crisis. But about emotions, about what you feel when you see and hear something. You can talk about how certain events remind you of certain colors, sounds… it’s important to start talking about what we really feel. Because all our lives we have been in a hurry and we have been in a complete denial of our primary emotions. However, through conversation and by balancing ourselves, we bring the primary emotions back to life.

Therefore it is important that we find security and this healthy self-confidence in ourselves again and that we open ourselves with our feelings to the world. We call this starting to watch with the heart.

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Author of the article: Milan Krajnc pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
Personal therapy - Milan Krajnc
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Personal therapy

SiriusPersonalTransformationTM is a stand-alone method or one of the processes of the SiriusCBT method, which can be thoroughly "cleaned" by itself.

It is a current that works on the same principle as nature, which makes changes or. who purifies herself. SiriusSPTTM is useful as a work methodology from two aspects:

  • Counselor as a personality: Have you forgotten about yourself at some point in your life? As a result, you began to experience congestion, which accumulated t.i. psychological garbage. With the SPTTM method, we first clear these congestions, congestions that have arisen on the basis of our own fears, shadows, molds of our own captivity. It is with this method that we manage to take the counselor from darkness to light, from our own captivity to freedom.
  • Counselor as manager: The process becomes part of the individual as a limb, so quick changes are not possible or resistance changes quickly. The SiriusSPTTM method is a managed process that leads top management or the owner of capital to personal growth and setting priorities in personal and business life. There is no universal recipe, everything that is universal is ten steps in the SPTTM method, everything else is written to the individual. we also teach the counselor to never fall into the dark again, which is made possible by the Dynamic Communication Model (DCM) tool.

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What will you gain from this?

  • You will find it easier to control yourself in unforeseen situations (fear, accident, panic situations…).
  • The number of errors in quick decision making will be reduced.
  • You will approach life’s problems more holistically.
  • In trouble, you will respond faster.
  • You will learn to observe and control your actions.
  • You will be able to anticipate the reaction of the environment to your own decisions (even before you decide).
  • You will quickly perceive the needs of others.
  • You will control time.
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Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
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Spiritual therapy

Theta Healing is a revolutionary healing and meditation technique that enables physical, mental and spiritual healing with a purposeful purpose through a single universal energy and Creator.

The Theta Healing method is not affiliated with any religion, it is not specific to any age, gender or religion. In performing Theta Healing, all that matters is that you believe in the fact that you can learn everything, change your beliefs about yourself and others, and believe in a universal connection to the field of unity and the origin of all that exists. When we connect to the Source of all that is, our brain waves automatically move into the Theta state of consciousness. There are several different frequencies of brain waves: Beta, Alpha, Theta, Delta and Gamma. Brain waves are constantly in motion and generate all kinds of frequencies. Everything we think and do is regulated by precisely these frequencies.

Scientists have found that the frequencies of Theta brain waves on which the Theta Healing method is based:

  • relieve stress and promote a long-term visible decline in problems in people who show anxiety,
  • promote deep physical relaxation and mental clarity,
  • promote speech ability and IQ speech expression,
  • synchronize the functioning of both halves of the brain,
  • promote memory, spontaneous thinking, imaginative creation, pain reduction, promote well-being and endorphin secretion.

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With the help of these waves and by connecting our consciousness with the Source, it is possible to achieve everything and also to change everything. With Theta Healing, you become the creators of your life.

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Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
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Energy therapy

LIFE ENERGY flows through everything and everyone on this planet; the most primal, immaculate one, which is reflected as inner happiness and contentment and triggers a deeper understanding of oneself.

If we open ourselves to it, we are in perfect harmony with ourselves, and this also has a beneficial effect on everyone around us. Whoever opens himself to REIKI opens himself to life energy. Reiki is the birthright of everyone born into this world.

STATE OF IMBALANCE

Nowadays, we often feel the exact opposite – a lack of life energy; we are trapped in stress, haste, an unhealthy lifestyle, in our own limiting beliefs and fears that prevent energy from flowing freely through our body. This can eventually severely weaken our system, leading to disease as a result.

RESTORING BALANCE

The basic law of nature is balance, in the psychophysical sense it means health, so the universe “provided” us with REIKI – a system of healing by laying on of hands, remote healing using the life force that is within ourselves and in everything we live.

ADJUSTMENT LEVELS (INITIATIONS)

At the beginning of the future reikist awaits the so-called tuning of the I. level. This puts reiki into action. Then there are the II. and III., and in some versions especially the master’s degree. With each of them, the reiki practitioner progresses, and his healing abilities increase.

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(SELF) HEALING POWER

Reiki is intended for self-healing as well as healing other people, animals, plants, spaces, the planet, that is, everything that exists. We do this by placing our palms on the recipient or consciously sending energy through the mind, thus giving the healing flow a free path. Even if we send reiki 5,000 miles away, it still works because the energy knows no time and space; Reiki symbols are also available to us, each of which has its own specific properties that further increase the effectiveness of the therapy.

Reiki energy reaches very deep, it heals not only the physical level, but also the mental, emotional and spiritual. It penetrates to the very causes of disease and trouble. It effectively releases trapped emotional energy, helps to resolve harmful thought patterns, relieves disease symptoms on the physical body (heals wounds and injuries extremely quickly), helps to resolve relationships, in short, we can say that it fully supports us in our development. This also means that after the therapies, due to the effects, we may be forced to change our current lifestyle, face our fears and take greater responsibility for our health. A lot depends on ourselves, and reiki is a great help in everything.

THERAPY

Usually people in a reiki session describe different feelings; heat, cold, tingling as well as pain can trigger restrained emotions such as sadness, anger, a sudden attack of laughter or crying. Some feel reborn, while in others the state of consciousness changes considerably and takes quite some time “to come back”. Many times, however, both the client and the therapist experience a feeling of “higher” connection as a result of a strong healing charge.

WE ALL HAVE IT

It is said that reiki is the birthright of everyone born into this world. So it’s not something you should learn. It is already inside us and we already master it well. As we moved away from our true nature, we forgot about it, and now perhaps an inner desire, perhaps a situation, is forcing us to rediscover its true value. It is a tool that helps us to more easily get in touch with our higher self, which is in itself a “great healer”.

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Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
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The dynamic model of communication is the result of many years of experience in the field of consultancy for top and middle-management, based on real processes of the organization.

The model is based on several physical principles and scientific methods in the field of management processes, information and people.

The SiriusDCM ® is introduced directly into the organization; the communication is adjusted in every organization regardless of its specificity and structure of human source.

Parallel with the SiriusDCM ® in the organization are included the principles of project management, also, at the same time, introducing project-based approach in the work of the organization’s strategic part of the solution. By this way the organization establish the conditions for project work included the most important element – human resources. The advantage of the dynamic model of communication lies in the fact that the whole matter is comprehensively tackled. The model is not merely a tool for introducing changes in the company, but in long term, the way of the future of work and communication within the company, which clearly defines who does what, who is responsible for what, who communicates what to whom and in what manner the information, is handed over to continue.

The dynamic model of communication allows manageability of information, allows that the company set up a monitoring and that each individual is confronted with its own responsibility in the workplace.

The dynamic model of communication eradicate the old, historical patterns of business and prevent that the company return to the old ways or brought to a standstill at a stalemate.

The purpose of introducing dynamic model are:

  • Checking the objectives and strategy of the company
  • Establishment of project work and reflection
  • The demarcation of responsibilities between employees
  • Accepting responsibility work/workplace

Objective:

  • Encouraging entrepreneurial way of working and thinking
  • Relief staff by evenly distributing tasks
  • Encourage the flow of information and the establishment of feed-back (improve communication)
  • Establish clear guidelines for further development of the company (the definition of strategic objectives and strategy definition)
  • Organized approach to planning activities, the preferred embodiment of the available resources of the organization and establishment of monitoring the implementation
  • Defining a new organizational structure project management
  • Control flow of information

The effects of the introduction of the dynamic model:

  • Relieved of employees
  • Distributed responsibility among employees
  • Greater employee satisfaction (better interpersonal relationships and positive organizational climate)
  • Fewer mistakes at work and as a result of this small number of complaints
  • Greater customer satisfaction
  • More productivity
  • Racionalized processes (greater savings due to changes in the work process)
  • Increased staff motivation
  • Greater loyalty to the company
  • Better business results

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Kako živeti v karanteni, da se mi ne zmeša? Milan Krajnc
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How do I live in quarantine so I don’t get crazy?

During quarantine, people react very differently to the situation. Quarantine is a kind of “captivity“, a restriction of freedom, which means that human nature first responds that it must defend itself, protect itself.

Most often, this “function” is activated when we meet someone anew or find ourselves in an unusual situation. At that moment, all the “sensors” “open”, which means that the body prepares for the attack and all the adrenaline is at its peak. If it is not actually an attack, we can use these moments for the part when we say that we have to believe in our intuition, first impression, or. sometimes in life we say to ourselves why I didn’t trust myself, that’s exactly how it was in the end, the way I felt in the beginning.

This “standby” lasts max. 90 seconds. This is a time when our sensors operate without “jammers”. This is the time when we see everything realistically! After 90 seconds, the jammers turn on again and our picture of the situation blurs.

I apologize for jumping a little from topic to topic, but I’m stringing together the facts and now I’m going to slowly start connecting and explaining.

Let’s go back to the birth of how a person’s personality develops.

Immediately at birth, we do not yet have a formed personality; (we bring with us, some potentials in DNA), but it has the greatest impact on its design education and the example of the environment in the first 6 years.

The child learns by observation by observing what is happening to the environment, how our authorities (the people who educate us) behave towards themselves. If these people live what they feel, then the children will also be allowed to live what they feel (the development of potentials that we have transmitted through DNA). If they live with prohibitions, then the child gets a “forced” life scenario, according to which he will have to live – so we start living someone else’s life, and this in early childhood.

The gap between potential and the new life scenario is called complexes, demons, darkness, psychological problems… countless names exist for this gap.

Because this life scenario is forced and not from the one who lives it, this life scenario has to get its food from somewhere in order to live. We often call this as if someone else lives inside us. And this “other person” needs food, but only mentally because it doesn’t physically exist. This other person needs food from where it came from, that is, from the outside world. He gets this food in such a way that he needs constant attention, confirmation, that there is, we call it today, the EGO. This attention can be very different, perhaps as successful in business, sports, or in constant conflict, victim… People in such people often see only success, not everything else. Those who are in direct contact with them, however, experience everything sooner than beautifully than those who see them in a flash. Namely, these people are largely successful for others, but themselves are mostly unhappy. And if we look at the society we live in, we are all successful in some way, but very few are happy.

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And now the story of quarantine begins…

We are lonely. We took this to a large extent, as a holiday where after a week we get tired of each other or ourselves. After 14 days, however, he is slowly starting to run out of psychological food, this other person, this life scenario, so now he needs new or stronger food. To a large extent, this can be alcohol or. other intoxicating substances, which are present all the time, but now the amount is increasing, and so the symptoms of “forced abstinence” come to the fore, even if we have all this at our disposal. This virtual person is slowly starting to come from our subconscious to our real world.

We often hear that we will now show our true face, but in reality the process of liberation is just beginning. Namely, this forced solitude is a great time of cleansing and symbolically there are also Easter holidays where we celebrate the resurrection… but maybe by then we will get rid of all our burdens and be born again, completely liberated. It will not be the same, because it is not possible to make a transformation in such a fast time, but there is enough time to make a fundamental shift.

Well and now from here, that is, from the third week of quarantine, you can decide for yourself which direction you are going or let the demons completely defeat you, or take life into your own hands and become the master of yourself!

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Now I will not write what can happen to you, but I assume that you will take life into your own hands and we will now look for solutions.

Observing natural phenomena in the laboratory, I saw how seven phases always happen; when an element changes structure or energy gets a higher frequency, a step back is no longer possible. So we can no longer establish the original structure of the material or. return the lower frequency to the energy. I noticed the same thing in changing psychological processes and saw what quantum leap means in nature and what it means in psychology.

In internal development, we call a quantum leap the moment when we notice a profound and final shift in feeling and behavior. Then we realize that something has changed forever.

A quantum leap is basically making a solid decision. But decision-making is extremely important for human life. We make 35,000 decisions every day. That means we go through these seven steps 35,000 times a day, and we’re not even aware of them.

Occasionally it happens that we do not perform any of the seven steps and thus get stuck in place. That’s when we get the feeling that we’re spinning in a circle, which can take years. Thus, on the basis of all observations and a good knowledge of natural phenomena, I developed a method that I called Serious Personal Transformation.

I will not describe the phases themselves in detail, because they are already described in great detail in a 1000-page book entitled I.

  1. The first step is tidying up. When we put things away, we see where we are and what it is that we need at all.
  2. Then in the second step we remove everything that is not ours or. which we think no longer belongs to us. In life we feel this as salvation, relief, we have the feeling that we have experienced enlightenment. In fact, we just made room to get fresh energy. If we do not take steps forward quickly at this stage, we will get even heavier burdens than we had until then.
  3. Therefore, in the third step, we need to think about what brought us here and what we want, what to fill this empty space with now, but this empty space may be enough for us. So we need to arrange all the rest of the things so that we have a sense that we are in balance.

    However, feelings of excitement begin to fade and a feeling of anxiety begins… We begin to think about how much time, energy, money… we have lost… At the same time we say where I have looked so far, I was blind… and similar regrets.

  4. In the fourth step, we set a new goal.
    Where do we want to go next, but based on new feelings and new insights about ourselves. There is still anxiety here, a bad conscience that we are going to betray someone now because we have to move on. Therefore, intense physical activity is needed for the body and brain to get enough oxygen to go through all the psychological effort more easily. Although we are slowly setting a new path, the energy of old habits is still very much present and it is pulling us back, so we need to be in good physical condition to be able to beat all these voices.

  5. In the fifth step, we are intensely faced with giving up old habits.
    Here we usually change society… Almost anything that hinders us from expressing our own will. It depends, of course, on what stage of transformation we are carrying out and in what area. While we may be able to make a small change, such as quitting smoking, this solves 100 other subconscious congestions. The fifth phase is the most intense, but we already feel relief within ourselves, even though we have a feeling that there is a storm around us.

  6. In the sixth step, we set a new path.
    In the sixth step, we say that the sun shines after every rain, as we begin to set our way to the desired sensations. Here, calls from the past are barely audible. So in a way we are already walking a new path.

  7. Step 7 – A new path.
    In the last step, we introduce the new path almost entirely into our entire life, where we no longer have the feeling that we have changed anything, even though our surroundings tell us how different we are. We ourselves often do not notice these changes because we are inside what is happening, and the environment sees a big change. We ourselves feel the changes much earlier, but when we calm down completely in the last phase, we don’t really know what it was about anymore, even though it was yesterday.

    We need to go through these seven steps to get rid of the second life scenario. However, it is necessary to be aware that this transformation is a very strenuous physical process, so we must take care of recreation, now in quarantine it can be abdominal, back exercises, stretching, breathing exercises…

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Why don't I want to go back to Slovenia anymore? Milan Krajnc
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Why I do not want to go back to Slovenia!

For more than twenty years I have been dealing with personal and business crises caused by personal disorders from childhood. That is why I have specialized in “cutting” bonds out of precociousness and developing the potentials that have slept so long because of psychological “garbage”.

In all these  years I have “saved” at least 1,000 people, all over the world. The mare from Kovač is usually barefoot or she runs much slower because you are alone in the problem and then you see no solution. Well, in this case I could say as an excuse that I did not find a psychotherapist who was good enough for me.

When I think back to my childhood, I remember that I was “ashamed” of some things, namely that I became interested in space very quickly, so that my first books from the library were about the universe.

So I always made sure that nobody saw which books I secretly borrowed and read. In no case I found a conversation partner, I was 9 years old. In the same year I also started dancing in a dance group. At the age of ten I started to write songs in secret. I was different, I felt that everything I did was not acceptable for the environment I lived in, in the suburbs of Ptuj. So I distanced myself from society and locked myself into my world where I was creatively active.

I had my own laboratory where I made “soaps”. I wrote stories and songs. I had all the walls plastered with pictures of planets and stars. At the same time, there was alcohol in the family circle and the resulting violence, so that I completely isolated myself from this world. I began to live in a world of my own. Only in high school did I realize that the environment in which I lived had become too narrow for me. But I still remained in my hometown.

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Why do I write about childhood when I want to answer the question: “Why do not I want to go back to Slovenia? I have to start with the cause, which in many cases lies in childhood. So the first step is always important; why do not you want something today.

I studied in neighboring Maribor, where I went every day from Ptuj. Then I got my first job in my home town, where I opened a shop. I married a local woman and we stayed in our hometown. With all the steps I took, I would be dissatisfied. I knew all this, I felt it, but I did not have the strength to overcome it. Although I was already working as a psychotherapist at that time. Until one day at the age of 30 I collapsed, I just could not breathe, I literally started to “vomit” wherever I had a bad feeling. I looked for a personal fitness trainer, started doing different energy therapies… and so I slowly gathered enough courage to leave Ptuj at the age of
33 and finally leave Ptuj. But obviously not far enough, because I was still dissatisfied with the acceptance of the environment, I just did not feel satisfied, so I started to look for new challenges and on recommendation I ran for president of Olympic Committee of Slovenia. At that time I was not aware of it, but I fell into a circle that had been operating with the same cast for almost 40 years, and I was in that circle as an intruder. When I looked at things from a distance, I basically saw that it was a strongly connected “community” or, as it is called in modern terms, a “lobby”. At that moment I thought of lobbies as follows:

»Sports lobbies or interest groups were not created intentionally, or are they professional groups, but are exclusively people for whom this is the only meaning of life! I can say this after three years of intensive work. in the national industry association and through their professional eyes.

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Each association was founded on the basis of a few interests, founded by up-and-coming boys to have fun, enjoy and develop at the same time at these gatherings. At some point, however, when they met this need on their part, some withdrew from these associations because they had higher goals. Or in other words. If we do not put our personal goal in life first, we will never be satisfied, but we will always look for meaning in our work, in our hobbies, in other things. And so the boys, who after decades had the only meaning of life in the conviviality through sport, are still active members of these associations, which is their only stimulus for life. And these guys basically represent Sports Lobby.

The lobbies in sport mentioned above are not primarily about money, but about “food” that fills their ego (to put it bluntly). These lobbies usually have no or no important function, if at all. However, with their direct comments they have a very strong influence on those who lead and decide. Today we call these lobby groups “uncles from the background”. In other words, they are elderly people who enjoy a reputation in an association that they once founded themselves. However, human psychology works in such a way that someone who has been around for a long time knows everything, even if he has essentially not moved for 30 years and the whole technique and method of sport has, according to his way of thinking, moved far into the future.

And every sports federation has such a club of “uncles from the background” who have their table in the club bar and from there they manage the daily and
strategic policy of this sport. Basically they do not even think badly, they just comment, they just have  fun, that they do not have a long time. However, people like coaches, functionaries who only occasionally come near them and listen to their debates or even talk to them, feel they know exactly what to do and, with a guilty conscience, hurry immediately to pass on the information (just because their self-esteem is low and they have no goal or identity of their own). However, since there is always distortion and misunderstanding in the transmission of information, the information passed on by “uncles in the background”, both for fun via one of the couriers to the Presidency or to the crowd, can cause immense discord and material damage.

Zakaj ne želim več nazaj v Slovenijo? Milan Krajnc

To give an example from personal experience: As president of the national federation, I had to provide additional funds to close the season, so I took out a loan with a bank where I mortgaged my assets, partly the company, because “uncles in the background” said that I was definitely doing something wrong; the other authorities blocked the union’s work to check these rumors. Because the trade union was blocked, there was also a blockade of my business accounts, which eventually led to the company being on the verge of collapse, I had to lay off 12 employees, endangering 12 families, I lost confidence in banks, business partners and finally in the public (the company was ranked 121st among the fastest growing companies in Slovenia, on the gazelle scale for 2012). And this only because the “uncles in the background” suspected something. Thus, an insignificant beer debate to shorten the afternoons can completely ruin the lives of some people, like the story of a butterfly that swings its wings in Africa and causes a hurricane in Central America…

So the uncles in the background are really a harmless gang, who only for a short time. But the problem is the lack of self-confidence and immaturity of the others who move around them. Who do not know what is true and what is not. So who is to blame, the uncles or the boys around them? Basically one and the other. If I make a  comparison with a vegetable garden and these boys are a young lettuce that needs to grow… …but if the garden is full of weeds, it will never grow into a lush lettuce, but will always remain dwarfish and tasteless. Therefore, these weeds must first be removed so that the lettuce can grow normally. The same should also apply to sports associations. It would be necessary to keep a safe distance from the “uncles in the background”, and we should have the function of wise men where we would be advised first and foremost. Today’s young functionaries should primarily build on self-confidence, on their real self image, so that they can decide their own fate and the reorientation of sports associations. They themselves, however, were so stable that they would take the opinion of the wise men only as a guide in decision-making, but not as the absolute truth.

As I was very close to winning my election campaign at that moment, I began to receive warnings from all quarters, criminal charges, false announcements in the media, business interruptions… only to never think about trying to get back in their circle. Maybe I can describe a case that occurred the day before the election for president of the OKS. The sports faculty UM celebrated its 50th anniversary at Ljubljana Castle, where both candidates were present. It looked as if I was at one end and he at the other end of the hall. I stood alone and everyone around him. A quarter of an hour later, the President of the Republic came to me and congratulated me on my courageous act. I can say that this is a lobby that the top echelons of the country fear, and I was treated and “punished” accordingly.

As I was already living partly in Belgrade at that time and enrolled for a doctoral thesis at Crisis Management, I moved to Belgrade and from there later to North America, South America, United Arab Emirates and finally to Switzerland. My starting point was still Belgrade.

Two years ago I returned to Slovenia with the intention of settling all the outstanding issues that remained from that time. Of course, this was almost
impossible, because I also wanted to redesign the business environment here. It was a rejection based on what was written on the Internet ten years ago and never checked. I had to prove for each business individually what was true and what was not, and some simply said they were afraid of getting into some kind of media affair. And so I decided to go back abroad. I can no longer imagine life in Slovenia.Unless current politics and the situation turn everything upside down.

So if I do a self-analysis now!

Apparently the fear was born very early and only grew or reached its peak at the age of 35 when she ran for the office of OKS. I could say that my feelings or my way of life in fear have already been “instilled” by my parents. Apparently they lived in fear too, and I simply took this way of life upon myself. But I developed my potential deep inside of me. Just as I developed all my potential abroad.

  • I did my doctorate at Leadership Psychology.
  • I am an assistant professor of Public Management at United Nations University for peace.
  • I have written 114 books on leadership, relationships and poetry. The books have been translated into 11 languages.
  • I founded the new scientific science of dynamics (in the process of adoption).
  • Currently I am in the process of being accepted as a full member of Royal Academy of Sciences and Arts of Serbia.
  • I have helped several successful companies and entrepreneurs to the top of the world.

I have listed only a few facts about what I could give to Slovenia and help it to become a world leader. But because of the lobbies that I wanted to change, I am of course no longer welcome here. After all, many people have used this for completely different stories, that they have cleared their name or profited from it or even made sacrifices…

So when I look for those who are leaving Slovenia or want to return to Slovenia, or give them advice. Slovenia is a very beautiful country to live in. Just do not go into public life and do not earn money outside. Do not push into different circles. This way you will remain unbiased. Despite all my knowledge I still have to fight with this fear. However, it is true that as soon as you start talking about these things, the purification process begins. So this period of selfisolation was designed to… to cleanse myself of all fears and perhaps one day visit Slovenia.

Thank you for your attention.

Avtor - Milan Krajnc
Author of the article: Milan Krajnc pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
How to solve the phenomenon of corruption in the Republic of Slovenia? Milan Krajnc
CategoriesBusiness success

How to solve the phenomenon of corruption in the Republic of Slovenia?

Henry Ford, one of the richest men of all time, said, "You can ask me anything, just not how I earned my first million!"

This record is an introduction to a research project on the causes and solutions of corruption in the Republic of Slovenia. Above all, I would like to point out the causes that cause corruption or. criminal act. I started the research project just before the crisis started, so I stopped it at the moment, because the situation after the crisis with the adoption of new legislation will be the conditions or. results different.

At the moment, I cannot say that the new legislation will reduce the level of corruption. What I see and the data I have access to, however, I can say is that by blocking some political parties from passing new legislation, they are increasing the level of corruption.

Insofar as in the proposal of the original legislation, who “opened the door” for some corrupt act, it means that it was a relatively clean way for someone to benefit, but at the same time easy to control and maybe in this way there is little damage, because here usually only one person or group. However, as such legislation begins to change, to be corrected, even more mistakes are made and even more groups open their doors.

So someone thinks how he managed to prevent a crime, but in reality he sped up the process and increased the crime. Is it because he wanted to help solve the situation, but he actually made it worse? If I answer this as a layman, I can say YES!

Namely, even when the police gather evidence where they have a suspicion, they first leave it under surveillance to allow someone to commit several crimes during the surveillance to have credible evidence. This is a perfectly legitimate legal process. Therefore, the opposition should also be aware that they are doing more harm than good with their partisan actions. It would be better to leave it all together and let the current government do what it thinks is best. Everything else will be revealed in the end. With such partisan actions, however, they only cover their tracks. If, of course, anyone has a “malicious” plan at all.

How to solve the phenomenon of corruption in the Republic of Slovenia? Milan Krajnc

Everything I write is not substantiated, I tackled it on the basis of rumors and some clues, even under the previous government; above all, I am looking for a model of how to bring the Dynamic Leadership Model closer to the state administration. Because this business model, in fact, prevents corrupt practices. Above all, I am in favor of raising the level of lobbying culture to a higher level. Namely, most people think that lobbyists are something bad, that they are the ones who steal. In reality, however, these are people with authority and expertise who represent certain groups before politics. By considering lobbyists, the level of corruption can be reduced as they are communication channels, no longer different intermediaries. Thus, control can be simplified.

That our politicians would not be so gullible, or that someone would not manipulate them with various “benevolent” information. They should be more educated, and above all at a higher level of consciousness.

So one solution to reduce the level of corruption; is a higher level of general education of Slovenian politicians and deputies. Therefore, it would be best for the elections to take place one year before taking office, during which time, MPs have time to go through a certain level of personal and professional transformation. At this time, they also mature enough and the initial enthusiasm in which the most mistakes are made also subsides.

Predicted causes of corruption:

  • The biggest cause of corruption is the low level of general education of Slovenian deputies.
  • What I will describe in one of the following records is inefficient public administration, due to too much administration, unclear processes and too many employees, in terms of efficiency.
  • Low salaries for key decision-makers in public administration. We are with our Members again, which stems from their low self-esteem.
  • Slovenia does not have a clear goal , where are we going at all, but people are restless because there is no clear future and most are only thinking about short-term solutions, which is basically corruption.
  • Low management culture of public administration.
  • … We will list more after the research is completed, which will probably drag on into next year.

The project will be the basis for my next project, how to raise the self-confidence of Slovenes. That anyone could talk about the first million and not be ashamed of it. The first million can be earned in a completely legal way. However, the country in which we operate and reside must create the conditions. Corruption in 99% is not the fault of the individual, but the conditions that are created.

I am also a lobbyist, but in Slovenia, they prefer not to accept me so that there is nothing wrong and then they prefer to meet for coffee. While in the West abroad, otherwise politicians don’t want to talk to you at all.

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dr. Milan Krajnc is an assistant professor of Public Management at the University of Peace at the United Nations, where he also teaches Lobbying.

  • He is a registered Lobbyist in the Republic of Slovenia, under number: 47
  • He is a registered Lobbyist in the Parliament of the European Union, under number: 901262437498-65
  • He is a registered Lobbyist in the Parliament of Canada, under number: 945607
Avtor - Milan Krajnc
Author of the article: Milan Krajnc, pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
Why does anyone want to become mayor - Milan Krajnc
CategoriesMayor academy

Why does anyone want to be Mayor?

Just before the crisis situation arose, I conducted a survey among all mayors in SE Europe to find out why individuals in a particular country choose to stand for election; I wanted to find out if there was a common pattern. What is this “moment” or. a psychological pattern that “something” triggers someone’s decision to become a Local Community leader.

In this case, it is a continuation of my doctoral thesis, in which I created a model for the administration of the municipality, so that the mayor does not have too much personal influence on the administration of the municipality.

Dinamični Model Vodenja - Milan Krajnc

Because if the mayor changes every 4 years and everyone has his own ideas, the community finally becomes a circus that never stops, everyone makes an even bigger mess with his ideas. That is why I have argued for an “independent” body to draw up a long-term strategy for the municipality (50 years), in which the voters then try to choose the one who can best contribute to the implementation of the strategy.

This is a higher level of thinking and living culture, but if we do not move in this direction, the municipalities will start to close down and hamlets will reappear as they were during another political regime. Of course, the mayors have the greatest role to play, and in addition to various citizens’ initiatives, they must also do so. So they have to decide on the role of the mayor on the basis of some higher aims than personal interests; only then can they do so.

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As I have been dealing with Slovenian mayors since 2002 and with others in SE Europe since 2012. I can say that the level of awareness of mayors has increased considerably. When I speak about Slovenian mayors in this case, I can say that the quality of leadership, which strives for higher goals, has increased greatly and that interest has decreased. The fact that the municipalities cannot develop further or. rise to a higher level is mainly the fault of the state with its short-term perspective and the low level of state policy.

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Author of the article: Milan Krajnc pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
Lover for converstions - Milan Krajnc
CategoriesConversation over coffee

Lover of conversation

Psychotherapists and coaches, there is no shortage of work these days. After all, many people find themselves in different situations of need, think about different things and then get stuck somewhere mentally or just have a long time.

Most of the time, those who call are those who have nothing lacking in the material world. They are women, with two children, married, a regular job… in short, everything seems to be fine.

But in reality these people are bored, their husbands do not talk to them, now they really cannot talk to anyone and are left alone. However, it can be seen that these are not really therapies, but only conversations. Conversations that they have never had with a partner, neither at the beginning nor on another day… except when he was at the bottom and broke at some point… the rest just lives a quiet, boring life, without depths, feelings and emotions… just for basic needs.

Lover for converstions - Milan Krajnc

And when I look through those eyes, most of the customers I have had over the last 20 years were actually the most who just came to talk. As a result, many conversations shifted from the office to walks in nature, sports activities… and later they did not understand why they had to pay for these things. Although I reminded them that it was only active occupational therapy… and her reaction was odgovore, but we are not friends. No, we are not friends… we do therapy… and so I ended therapy.

Therapists live by “talking,” time and knowledge of talking is our only tool, and if we share that, we will devalue ourselves.

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Vision - Milan Krajnc

So, those of you who need a conversation, we are always here for you, but if you are aware and feel that our work helps you, then respect us as human beings. Each of us has his own life, which we very rarely show in public. When we appear in public, for interviews or professional work, because we need advertising ourselves, it does not mean that we are public figures and are available for everyone.

Even if our mission is to help people in need, we are simply people who also need our lives. There may be fewer customers now, but there will be more lives.

Thank you.

Avtor - Milan Krajnc
Author of the article: Milan Krajnc pedagogue, entrepreneur & crisis manager I teach you to look “at yourself” as a third person. For more information or an introductory meeting, write to me at official@milankrajnc.com
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